Use a speaking-order worksheet to agree introductions, handovers and optional reception segments with your event team.

A wedding speaker cue sheet lists every speaking segment in order, with the agreed introduction, timing and production cues. It is a logistics document, separate from the spoken script itself.

This worksheet covers the running order: who speaks, when, for how long, what the emcee says to bring them on, and what happens with music and handovers between segments. If you need help writing the actual spoken content, see the wedding emcee script guide.

What the cue sheet covers

Each row is one segment of the reception. For every segment, the organiser and emcee agree:

  • Order and segment name (e.g. couple entrance, parent speeches, toast, games, cake cutting)
  • Speaker or role: who is responsible for this segment
  • Introduction cue: the agreed wording the emcee uses to introduce the speaker or segment
  • Duration: the agreed time for this segment
  • Music in / music out: the agreed track for entrance or exit, and when it fades
  • Handover: who follows this speaker, and whether the emcee bridges or the next speaker walks straight on
  • Approval: who confirmed this row (the couple, the planner, or the speaker themselves)

How to use it

  1. Download the blank cue sheet below.
  2. Fill in the segments that apply to your reception. Not every wedding includes every row. Remove segments you are not having (e.g. bouquet toss, games) and add any that are specific to your programme (e.g. a live band set, a video montage, a cultural ceremony segment).
  3. For each speaker, confirm their preferred name and the introduction wording directly with them. Do not assume a title or honorific.
  4. Share the completed sheet with your emcee and your wedding planner or venue coordinator at the lead time you agree with your emcee and planner.
  5. Agree a final version number and date. If anything changes after that, update the sheet and re-share it so everyone works from the same version.

The sample cue sheet

The downloadable CSV below contains illustrative placeholder rows for a typical reception. All names, titles and cues are examples only. Replace every bracketed field with your own confirmed details.

The segments shown (welcome, grace, first course, couple entrance, parent speech, best man or maid of honour speech, toast, photos, games, cake cutting, bouquet toss, closing) are common but not universal. Your reception may have more or fewer segments. Adapt the sheet to your actual programme.

Download: Wedding Speaker Cue Sheet (CSV)

Open the CSV in any spreadsheet application (Google Sheets, Excel, Numbers). Each column is one field to agree with your emcee and speakers.

What the cue sheet does not cover

  • The spoken script itself (what the emcee actually says during each segment). See the wedding emcee script guide for that.
  • Venue logistics (table layout, stage setup, AV equipment). Coordinate these with your venue or planner.
  • Cultural or religious ceremony order. If your wedding includes a tea ceremony, church service, solemnisation, or other ceremony, add those segments and confirm the order and protocol with the officiant or elder leading them.

Connecting the cue sheet to your emcee

Once the cue sheet is complete, send it to your emcee with any additional briefing notes. The emcee uses it to prepare introductions, transitions and timing. Changes after the agreed version should be communicated and acknowledged before the event.

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